4 Ways To Amplify Your Joy

4 Ways To Amplify Your Joy

In the last couple of weeks I’ve had a big shift. After a hike in the mountains, one of my favourite things to do, I felt energised and uplifted. I always find being in nature soul nourishing and deeply healing. I often get clarity and inspiration as my mind clears and ideas flow.

After this particular hike I realised that the joy has gone out of so many things I do – not the actual work I do with clients, thank goodness I always love that, but it’s gone from the ideas and creation and planning of new things, the behind the scenes stuff in my business and my life.

I decided to bring back that joy.

To come back to a space that is filled with a sense of ease and alignment.

No more push and heaviness.

No more hesitation and distress.

I mind mapped my life and business and reconnected to the things I love in a way that feels good for me – not how I think things ‘should’ look but what actually feels good.

As I did this I also came up with 4 things that help bring that feeling of ease and joy into my life.

I hope these 4 Ways To Amplify Joy will help you too.

1. Take a break. Step out of your current environment. That might mean getting outside during the day, taking a mini break or a longer holiday. It might mean being in nature or even a city fix. It might mean curling up with a good book or enjoying your favourite hobby. Do something that your heart is calling you to do.

2. Be around people who get you, who reallly care about you. These are the very same people that you care about too, the ones you want to help and see happy and fulfilled. This life is a two way street. Helping other people can bring you as much joy as knowing that others care about and love you. Call a friend for chat, have a coffee or dinner.

3. Plan. Getting organised can bring a real sense of ease into your daily life. Mind mapping your goals and intentions and planning out your days to work towards those goals and intentions helps you see that it is doable – how joyful and exciting does that feel?!

4. Focus on what is already brining you joy. Gratitude is key. What we focus on we create more of. Start with what is already bringing you joy. Lean into the joy that already exists, embrace it and you will attract more into your life.
What do you do to amplify joy in your life?
Let me know in the comments below.

In health and happiness, Dee xxx

My Story. My Beliefs. My Perspective.

My Story. My Beliefs. My Perspective.

I posted on Instagram last week about being more open, raw and honest with you about why I do what I do, what has got me to where I am and how I continue to overcome blocks so I can move forward and have more impact in the world.

I wrote this because people often ask me to share more than I do.

So, here goes…

The last (almost) two years, since my father died, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about who and what is really important. A lot of time healing and working on how I feel about myself, who I am in this world, my worth and what that really means.

It spiralled me back into the beliefs I had about myself in my teens and early 20’s. Not a great place to be, but it’s forced me to grow and accept my worth and the part I play in the life of my chosen loved ones, which is ultimately great!

Side note: I’m still working on this! Pretty much every day.

A lot of the time it hurts like hell. I’ve cried. A lot. This time last year I was totally exhausted and felt like sleeping for weeks. The everyday life stuff, connecting with people, growing my business, improving my life,  I doubted I could do it. I didn’t think I deserved it. I didn’t think I was worth it. Anyone who knows me knows this isn’t me at all. I don’t give up. I’m positive about life.

So, I took some time to rest and took the pressure off myself to achieve my goals and intentions for 2018.

There’s 3 things that have stood out for me over this time:
– I was getting stuck in my story.
– The negative beliefs I have about myself are holding me back in multiple areas of my life.
– I can change my perspective on anything to see the good.

Part one …


Here’s the truth. I got stuck in my story. The story of “I’m tired” was a big one and as most of the stuff we tell ourselves is, it was true at one point, but I got to the point where I had to ask myself if it was still true.

Last February I can honestly say I was damn tired – physically and emotionally. I was waiting for support from people that were never going to give it me. I wasn’t looking after myself fully (as I continually advise others to do). I wasn’t being authentic. So I took steps in the right direction to come back to my real self and I think I’m almost there! Yay!

Late last year though, I heard myself say for the gazzilionth time “God, I’m tired, I need to sleep” and something clicked in my brain. Am I really?, I asked myself. Turns out, the answer was “no, I’m not!”. I’m just feeling flat, unsure and scared about what to do next. I knew there was so much I needed to do, especially in my business, whose growth I’d neglected. But to do that I needed to do some work on myself and my beliefs.

Refurbish my thoughts if you will.

Part 2


I had lost belief in myself and went back to a version of my younger self where I truly believed I didn’t deserve much, that I wasn’t good enough or smart enough to be happy and successful. And a big one for me, I don’t belong and people just don’t really like me.

Not a great place to be, I’m sure you agree.

From this focus and mindset of lack it’s hard to grow and thrive. I know when I believed these things to be true in my 20’s I married the wrong person*, did unfulfilling work, lacked purpose and didn’t look after myself well at all. I changed things then, so surely I could change them again.

*you’ll be glad to know I divorced said ‘wrong person’ and found my one – we’ve been together 23 years in May!

Now, I know these beliefs from my childhood simply aren’t true. And I want you to know that if you’re feeling like this, it simply isn’t true for you either. For me they come from situations where I felt like I could never do enough, be enough or fit in and be a part of something. 

However, there is a silver lining to this coming up in Part three!

Here’s one simple thing I did that really works…

I started a page in my journal for each negative belief and below it began a list of anything that disproves this belief. It’s amazing how effective this is. I mean, for starters, when I just take a look at the people around me who include me in their lives how can those beliefs be true?! The answer is as simple as it seems. Those negative beliefs just can not be true. The evidence is proof, it’s hard to ignore.

Of course knowing they’re not true and actually believing and living it is another story. I’m not going to lie, it’s an ongoing process. I keep adding to these lists plus journalling and doing lots of things to support my wellbeing on all levels. When negative thoughts come up I question whether they are true, and even if I can’t quite convince myself they’re not, I choose a positive thought to replace it.

Self compassion and perspective is super important.

Which brings me to Part 3


I really started to change how I looked at things. This doesn’t mean ignoring the unfortunate things that have happened or the beliefs I have had about myself. In fact it meant acknowledging them and then looking for the good that I could take from it. What does it mean for me and who I am as a person today?

This is the silver lining. I may not have felt deserving or worthy but I was always kind to other people. I may not have felt like I belonged but I’ve always truly loved helping others. I may not have felt good enough but I’m married to the best man I could imagine and am surrounded by caring friends. These things are what led me to be doing the work I love and becoming a kind, compassionate and caring person.

ACCEPTANCE is key here.

Accepting yourself, where you’re at.
Accepting help from others. Accepting that I feel uneasy about people reading this but I’m at the point in my life where helping others is more important. Knowing that sharing helps others.

I’m not even sure this was what I wanted to say (and I know there’s more), but if it helps just one person to know they’re not alone then it was worth writing it.

Remember to be patient and compasssionate to yourself. Know you can change your beliefs and your perspective and move towards the life you know you deserve.

In health and happiness, Dee xxx

PS. A huge thank you to the friend that offered to help me write this. Even though I didn’t take you up on the offer, knowing it was there was a huge comfort and support to me.

My 2019 Theme & Guiding Word

My 2019 Theme & Guiding Word

If you’ve been following me for a while you probably already know that I don’t do the new year resolutions thing. I set some goals and intentions for my business and my life. I also do a big mid year business plan as the new financial year begins. Anyway, I digress… 
Along with my goals and intentions I choose a guiding word for the year ahead and this year I also have a theme for the year. Both of these are the focus for all my goals and intentions. They feed into how I desire my year to feel and look.
So without further ado, here they are…
My THEME for the year is…


It feels like a  big and powerful intention that will allow me to grow and change alongside maa organics.
To really spread my wings, stretch myself, get out of my comfort zone.
It feels damn scary actually,  but I have a feeling it’s going to be so worthwhile.
I feel like I’m right on the edge of the next level in my business. I feel like life is about to become bigger and fuller with more connection and fulfillment.
I’m ready to say yes, take risks, grow both personally and professionally to allow this expansion to take place. I am open.

May this year of expansion be filled with laughter, positivity and joy.

My WORD for the year is…


This word feels like it fits perfectly into my theme of expansion. It is exactly how I want to approach life in 2019.
I embrace the newness of the year.
I  embrace myself as I am now. I nourish my body and soul. I give myself time and space to flourish.
I embrace just being. No rushing, no urgency, no anxiety. I embrace my breath.
I embrace my feelings, leaning into my desires.
I embrace the joy in planning. I take inspired action that fills me up, saying no to things that deplete me.
I embrace my achievements and the bumps in the road. I reflect and celebrate along the way.

I embrace this year of expansion with openness, ease and happy anticipation.

This is the energy I’m creating for 2019.
This is the energy I’m embracing for 2019.
How do you want 2019 to look and feel? Do you have a theme and/or word that reflects your desires?
Share with me in the comments below. I’d love to hear from you.
In health and happiness, Dee xxx

My Morning Rituals

My Morning Rituals

I wanted to follow up last months blog post, where I talked about my evening wind down rituals, by talking about my morning rituals.
Sooo, mornings …they’re not really my thing. But this year I’ve really changed my attitude to them! And it’s helped set the tone for the day ahead.

Here’s how my mornings used to be….

alarm goes off, hit snooze, alarm goes off, hit snooze, repeat, repeat, repeat! Get out of bed, because if I wait any longer I’ll be late! Get ready, have coffee, start work.
Not ideal.
Side note,  I’m not saying this never happens anymore!
Now, don’t worry, I’m not going to tell you how I’ve grown to love mornings and how you can too!
If you’re a morning person, that’s great – do your thing!

This is what my mornings look like now…

Alarm goes off. Yep, I still hit snooze or I have a second alarm set, depending on what I have on that day. I don’t jump out of bed. I lay there for while, enjoying my comfortable warm bed.
Before I get up I remind myself how grateful I am to be doing work I truly love, to be helping people on a daily basis and growing a business with my husband that supports us to do the things we enjoy. I don’t just  think these thoughts, I really feel them in my entire body.
Then I get up, have a shower and get dressed. Next I drink warm lemon juice and water, followed by my vitamins.
The next bit is sometimes different. Most days it’s set up for work – either client coaching calls in my office or treatments in the wellbeing studio. Then I sit down and enjoy a cup of coffee with something light to eat while checking social media, emails and messages. Other days it’s going to networking events, meetings or working on other projects or general admin stuff.
A good cup of coffee always features and time to enjoy it, even if it’s only 5 – 10 minutes. I really believe that having some time for you before you start your day is super important. It can be a tea or coffee, journaling, a meditation – whatever works for you.

Don’t think you have to jump out of bed, go for run. Don’t think your morning has to look like everybody else’s does. I’d love to say I journal and do yoga or go for a walk, but the reality is I’m better off doing those things later in the day – it just works better for me. So find what works for YOU.

If you want to change how your mornings feel just do one thing that feels good. Make that a habit. Then add in another thing if you want to.
I’m constantly tweaking my morning and nighttime rituals and I love that. It changes with the seasons. It changes as I change and grow. It changes depending on how I feel and what’s going on in my life.

Do you have an morning ritual?

If not what’s one thing you can do to ease more gently into your day? Give it a go and see how your day changes and how differently you feel at the end of the day.
I’d love to hear how it goes. Let me know in the comments below.
In health and happiness, Dee xxx

My Night Time Ritual

My Night Time Ritual

This month I’m resetting my night time routine. I’ve created a night time ritual that clears my mind and calms my soul so I’m ready for a good nights sleep.

I’m definitely a night person so having good wind down habits in the evening has always been a must for me.

I can easily just keep doing stuff right up until bedtime. I know the ‘experts’ say this is not the way to do things but this is when I feel good and I have time. To me it’s all about doing what works for you, working with what you’ve got and making the most of your energy and time. I have far more energy and motivation in the late afternoon and evening – this is when I feel inspired and motivated and work best.

Having said that I want to start to spend some more time winding down before I go to sleep.

So here’s my new night time ritual…

After dinner I may do a little bit of work – like writing a blog post for instance! Then I write in my business journal the 3 things I’ve achieved that day and if I need to I also write down anything that I’ve struggled with and possible solutions to those struggles along with anything I’ve learned that day. I look through my appointments for the next day and slot in anything extra from my weekly to do list. That way I don’t lay in bed thinking about it!

Then Andrew and I go for a walk. This can end up being quite late but it helps to relax my mind and body – I find it calming and clearing. It resets and balances my energy. It marks the end of my work day.

When I get back from our walk I do my basic skincare routine. For my face – a cleanse, tone and facial oil to deeply hydrate my skin. And for my body either my tranquillity body lotion or a body oil with some calming essential oils. About once a week I’ll add a face mask to my skincare routine. And I may also put an overnight conditioning treatment in my hair if I need it. Then I’ll clean my teeth, put on my pyjamas and get into bed.

When I’m comfy, yes, I’m going to admit it, I’ll check my phone (I’m human!) before I do a guided meditation and journalling. I’ll have essential oils diffusing or a few drops on a tissue under my pillow if I’ve forgotten to put the diffuser on! Sometimes it’s just lavender, or my Sweet Dreams blend. I also love Roman chamomile and sandalwood at the moment.

I’ve been trying different guided meditations from apps as well as YouTube. I did a Guided Gratitude Meditation the other night and the anxiety I was feeling just vanished! Having a gratitude practise is something I’ve found to be so powerful over the last few years – but I guess that’s another topic for another post! This month I’ve been a doing 5 – 15 minute guided meditation and it’s certainly making a difference.

My mind feels clearer, my body feels more relaxed. I feel calmer and it’s making a difference to my sleep and general state of mind.

Then I grab my journal and jot down any thoughts that popped up during the meditation or anything I need to get out of my brain from the day that’s still hanging around after my meditation.

If I can’t think of anything to write I’ll draw an oracle or tarot card and see what comes up. It’s always interesting to see where my mind goes from the simple theme of a card.

Most of these things aren’t new to me. Walking, essential oils and skincare are part of my life. For years I’ve been doing a little meditation when I get into bed, where I focus on my breath and relax each part of my body. And I’ve been doing nightly journalling on and off for a while now…I’m finding the daily consistency effectively clears my mind of any remaining clutter and thoughts from the day. The business journal is a new practice that I’m loving.

I know this seems like a lot but it actually doesn’t take long at all.

Each evening is a little bit different. I don’t walk every evening or write in my business journal if I’ve had a day off. For as long as I can remember my skincare routine and essential oils have been a non-negotiable. The meditation and journalling is something I’m aiming to do every night.

I’m finding these things to be a lovely combination that works for me. Calming. I’m enjoying this time to let go of the busyness of the day and finding my anxiety has reduced dramatically.

Do you take time to wind down with a night time ritual?

If not, what’s one thing you can do to calm your body and mind and prepare for a good nights sleep? Give it a go – I think you’ll find the effects will flow into all areas of your life.

In health and happiness, Dee xxx

Essential Oils for Spring

Essential Oils for Spring

It’s been feeling like Spring here in Canberra – yay! There’s actually been a few days that I’ve been out without a coat! 

As you may know, with each season I create a special pamper package for the wellbeing studio. I also create a seasonal essential oil blend to supercharge the treatment. So I thought I’d share the blend here with you today.

The SPRING BLOOM blend is a combination of orange, neroli, rose, jasmine and geranium. These oils embody spring as plant and flowers bloom and the weather warms. In Spring we are open to love and harmony. We invite confidence and creativity. We are inspired to begin new things, reset and create new rituals and routines. 

Let’s explore each essential oil in the Spring Bloom Blend…


Orange is balancing and energising, giving vitality and radiance to mind and body. It enhances positive energy, enthusiasm, inspiration and creativity. It allows you to unwind & de-stress, releasing anxiety, frustration and depression and allowing relaxation to wash over you. It also helps the perfectionist to take a more easy going approach! It is very useful if you are feeling sadness, apathy or loss of hope by strengthening the soul and bringing  a light-heartedness to your life. It helps create joy, love, communication and pleasure in your day, bringing with it self-assurance, courage and happiness.


Neroli is one of the most effective anti-depressant oils. It is excellent for anyone who has been depressed long term or short term. It’s sedative action acts as a natural soothing agent for the nervous system, calming and uplifting. It is a great anxiety fighter and also good for nervous exhaustion and shock. It enhances relaxation and is stabilising, regenerating and strengthening. It enhances self-confidence and fulfilment. It also helps in times of sorrow especially when accompanied by a feeling of emptiness. It centres your entire being, reconnecting mind and body to bring about a sense of joy.


Rose is for the heart, it is for falling in love with life and all that entails. It is refreshing to the soul, bringing joy and love to the heart. It promotes self-esteem, self-love compassion, love, happiness and enhances the feminine spirit. It is harmonising and healing, bringing warmth, peace, fulfillment and rejuvenation to the mind, body and spirit. It is also comforting & soothing in times of emotional stress. It is perfect to use in times of grief and loss. A great anti-depressant, it helps dispel fear and anxiety.


Jasmine brings magic, hope and bliss to your day. It helps create harmony, positiveness and calmness while enhancing confidence, self-worth, openness and optimism. It hits pessimism on the head!, reducing moodiness especially in times of stress and nervous exhaustion…almost instantly replacing a bad mood with a feeling of joy! It is also an effective anti-depressant and diminishes fear and anxiety.


Geranium is a fantastic balancer for the nervous system. It relieves stress & depression, strengthening and balancing the mind. It is also excellent for feelings of anxiety, overwhelm, indecisiveness and self doubt. It is fortifying, comforting and calming, enhancing contentment, confidence and the ability to change. It is a great boost if you are feeling run down. It is great as a general overall tonic and immune support.

What essential oils are you drawn to in Spring? And how do they make you feel?
Let me know in the comments below.

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In health and happiness, Dee xxx

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